Kid Daze

The Challenge: Does Total Gym Really Work?

2009-05-26T14:03:00.004-05:00

Okay, so I am a busy mom of two preschoolers (or rather, I am a mom of two BUSY preschoolers!) so I find it difficult to maintain the kind of work out routine that I held in the past. I have fond memories of my single days when life could literally revolve around trips to the gym. I was in shape and enjoyed working out. I could actually enter a 10k race and finish it.

That was one husband and two children ago. For awhile I had a gym membership that worked for me and I was on my way back into good health. But then we moved and the gym no longer was a convenient possibility for me. So here I am, desperately needing some sort of routine that will work for a tired mom. Cue the Total Gym commercial.

I was flipping through the satellite guide the other night and saw that an advertising spot was on for the Total Gym. Now, we had picked one up second hand for my husband years ago, but I never used it. I started watching about the product and they claim you just need to do it 10 minutes a day. Now exactly what the results are supposed to be was not spelled out, but there was fine print about having to eat a healthy diet if you wanted to lose weight.

But back to the point - 10 minutes. I thought it's one thing to not want to bundle up the kids in winter time and drive 20 minutes to the gym so you can workout for an hour. (that was why it didn't last once I moved!) You eat up half of your day just getting your workout in. But if all I have to do is can't find 10 minutes a day then I am just being plain lazy NOT to give this a try.

So, the challenge is on, and I will let you know how it goes. I am going to do 10 minutes a day for 60 days. I will find out if this is the perfect workout tool for busy moms and you can have an unbiased, unpaid review of this product.

Snow Painting

2008-12-19T09:43:00.003-06:00

Here is a great way to get the kids outdoors for some fun in the wintertime. If you have snow on the ground, you have a blank canvas just waiting to be painted. Pick up some spray bottles from a dollar store. Fill them with water and then add food color to create a variety of colors. Head outside and let the kids create wonderful art creations by spraying the snow. Your yard will be beautiful!

Note: food coloring has been known to stain clothes, so supervise younger kids when they are painting.

You can also use this to create a painted "obstacle course." Spray a path that will take the kids all around the yard, around trees, zig-zag, hopping from spot to spot, etc. Then paint an S for the start and an F for the finish. Have them run the course... ready, set, go!

Play Food For Free

2008-12-16T13:46:00.004-06:00

Sometimes the most simple ideas are right under your nose and you just don't think about them. I went to a birthday party and the mom had her kids play kitchen totally stocked. But it wasn't plastic food and miniature cardboard food boxes. She had stocked the shelves with the empty boxes and containers from her own kitchen. What a brilliant idea!

When I got home, I went through all the stuff I had saved for potential rainy day craft material - macaroni and cheese boxes, rice a roni, poptarts, cardboard oatmeal canisters, juice containers, egg cartons, plastic spice shakers, pizza boxes...the list could go on and on. I taped them shut and stocked the shelves in my girls room. Wow! They were excited! They did nothing but play store and cooking for the next 3 days. The best part is that if items get squished or ruined, you just throw them away and replenish the next time you empty a packaged food item. What a great way to recycle what used to go straight to the trash.

You may need to experiment depending on your kids temperament. My kids didn't like having the containers taped shut. They ripped them open so they could "pour" the contents out and cook. I think they will last longer if they are taped closed but not if they tear them up trying to open them!

editors note: 1-14-09

My kids are now content to leave them taped shut, which does indeed prolong the life span.

Playdough Pizza Parlor

2008-09-23T00:16:00.002-05:00

We had a blast having a pizza parlor on our kitchen table today. Break out the playdough and give it a try. My girls have a play kitchen, but they really weren't interested in using it. Instead we had an old Mt. Dew cube box which became the pizza oven. They did like using some of the accessories though - a spatula, a tray, and a couple of plates.

First you have to have them knead the doughball. (playdough) Then roll it out. Next come the toppings. Get creative. We made pepperoni pizzas with lots of cheese. They can put it in the oven to cook, then slice it up when it is done. Fold the pizza in half and they can bake a calzone.

Dad was home today so he got to consume many pizza creations! I didn't think those kids were ever going to stop playing with the playdough!

If pizzas don't catch your kids fancy, try having them create and cook some other food they enjoy - cupcakes with sprinkles on top, cinnamon rolls...

Contemporary Art for Little People

2008-06-06T12:56:00.002-05:00

This is a great project for any age because it does not require staying in the lines. Buy a small art canvas for your child to paint. Get a roll of painters blue tape. Lay out strips of tape on the canvas. You can stick to all straight lines to create series of rectangles and squares or put them on as random angles and lines. Now your child can either paint over the whole canvas or just fill in the spaces with color. Once the paint has dried, remove the painters tape and you have a contemporary art piece.

Variations on this would be to give only certain colors to your child for painting - cool blues, greens, and purples or a warm set of oranges, yellows, and reds. Do you want them to create art work for their room? Use the colors from their room for creating the art.

Graham Cracker Houses

2008-03-27T20:25:00.004-05:00

Instead of baking gingerbread, buy a box of graham crackers and just do the fun part - decorating!

The basics: You will need a box of graham crackers, a container of icing, and an assortment of candies for decorating. Also, a 1/4 tsp of cream of tartar mixed in a cup of icing will help the icing dry hard enough to hold your cracker house together.

For a base used cardboard covered in aluminum foil. To pipe your icing onto your house, cut the corner off a plastic bag. Once you have your walls assembled you have two options.
1. You can cover the house with icing and stick the candies on, or
2. use your icing like glue and stick individual candies on the house.
If you go for option one, be sure to only ice one cracker at a time or the icing may get too hard for the candy to stick to it before you get all your decorating done.

Teddy Bear Races

2008-03-22T14:34:00.000-05:00

Get a couple of empty plastic clothes baskets and put a teddy bear in each. Have your kids race each other or you race your kid. Set a course for the race then push your teddy bears across the floor and see who gets to the end first. Try not to dump your teddy bear along the way! (don't have plastic baskets? find something else that will work in their place - even a couple small empty boxes will do) If you have really young ones, you may want to have the goal be finishing, rather than racing.

Choo-Choo Train

2008-03-22T14:33:00.002-05:00

Have your kids form a train by standing behind each other and holding onto the waist of the kid in front of them. You be the engine in the front. Reach your hands back for your kid to hold onto if it isn't easy for them to hold onto your waist. Now chuga-chuga-choo-choo all around the yard. If they want, let them take a turn being the engine.

Rain Dance

2008-03-22T13:04:00.003-05:00

Go outside and teach your kids how to do a rain dance. If it's winter, do a snow dance. Pattern it after native american dancing and have fun.

If you have a playgroup this is a fun indoor activity. Create a rainstorm inside. Have all the kids sit in a circle on the floor. One parent starts the rain storm and whatever they do, have the kids do. To really make is sound authentic, go around the circle one by one adding to the rainstorm. They should keep doing their the current motion until it is their turn again. Say, "Here comes the wind." Make circular motions on the floor with your hands. Have the kids do the same motions, going around the circle clockwise. When everyone is making the wind noise, the parent says, "Here comes the rain," and starts tapping the floor with their fingertips. Each child in turn taps the floor. Then the parent says, "it's getting harder," and taps the floor with their whole fingers. Go around the circle, changing from fingertips to fingers. Then the parents says, "it's getting harder," and pounds the floor with their palms, and each child in turn changes from fingers to palms. Do the reverse for the storm passing.

Indoor Sledding

2008-03-22T13:02:00.000-05:00

Take turns giving your kids "sled" rides. Get a blanket out and lay it on the floor. Have your kid sit down on it, pull the sides in towards them for them to hold onto. Now you take the end and pull them around the house. This works best on non-carpeted floors, but can be done even on carpet. note: this is in place of going to the gym for you!

Puzzles

2008-03-22T13:00:00.001-05:00

Bring out your puzzles and spend some time putting them together with your kids. Try to use the time for teaching your kids too. You can teach them about the shapes, colors, or objects in the puzzles.

Puff the Magic Dragon

2008-03-22T12:53:00.002-05:00

This is one that shouldn't be forgotten. Teach your kids the song Puff the Magic Dragon. You can get all the lyrics and music here. And contrary to rumor, there is nothing untoward intended in the lyrics. See snopes.com for the lowdown on the lyrics.

Snowman door wreath

2008-03-22T11:04:00.002-05:00

Pick up 3 wreaths from your local dollar store or craft store. Tie them together to form your snowman and add a hat, scarf and mittens. The totally homemade version goes like this: Get an old cardboard box. Cut one big circle out of cardboard. Draw 3 circles inside each other on your cardboard circle, so that it looks like a dartboard. Then cut along each line. This leaves you with 3 circles to make your wreaths for the snowman. Punch holes in the circles and tie them together to make your snowman. Let your kids glue cotton balls onto the snowman, then dress him in your scarf set and hang on the wall or your front door. If you make a smaller one, then your kids can use construction paper to make the accessories for the snowman and glue them on. See a picture here.

Puppet Show

2008-03-22T10:57:00.002-05:00

Put on a puppet show. If you have puppets, you can use them. Otherwise, make puppets as a craft time activity. You can get elaborate and make a 'stage' from an old box or just sit the kids down at the dining room table. You get on the other side and sit on the floor. Then just have the puppets perform at the table height.

Animal Fun

2008-03-22T10:55:00.003-05:00

Have your kids pretend to be different animals. Have them walk, crawl, or jump like the animals and imitate their noises. Have them try to be like a variety of different animals. You can do farm animals, zoo animals, or pets. Teach them about the different animals while they are playing. Tell them about the animals habits, what they like to eat, etc.

Paper Bag Puppets

2008-03-22T10:51:00.002-05:00

Make paper bag puppets. You can do this by decorating the bags with construction paper cutouts or get more creative with other art supplies. (ex: buttons, yarn, glitter, etc.) Need more help?

Try making farm animals like a cow, pig, sheep, or chicken.
Make domestic animals like a cat, dog, or bunny.
Make zoo animals like a lion, penguin, or bear.
Make people.

Old MacDonald

2008-03-22T10:46:00.006-05:00

Sing Old MacDonald had a Farm with your kids. This is a great interactive song for your little ones to learn the different farm animals and the sounds they make. If you are lucky enough to have animal hand puppets, use them as you sing the song. Don't be afraid to use any animal even if it isn't a traditional farm animal. Your kids will love making all sorts of critter noises with you. :)

Hokey Pokey

2008-03-22T10:46:00.003-05:00

Do the Hokey Pokey with your kids today. Need the Lyrics? Don't be afraid to add your own twist to the song and dance like "You put your teddy bear in, you put your teddy bear out..."

Playdough Fun

2008-03-22T10:32:00.003-05:00

Using playdough, have your kids make shapes. You can give them direction and make it a teaching opportunity or just let them freestyle. Young kids will enjoy using cookie cutters to cut shapes out of the pressed playdough. You can find playdough cutters at the dollar store, or make some basic shapes out of old cardboard tubes or boxes. You can also work on color recognition with your playdough time.

Ideas for themes:
Learn parts of the body - make all the body parts - feet, legs, body, arms, head - then assemble them.
Learn shapes - make circles, squares, triangles, rectangles
Zoo animals
Pets
Farm animals
Learn sizes - long/short, big/small

Simon Says

2008-03-22T10:28:00.003-05:00

Play Simon Says. You as the parent should be Simon. You say "Simon says..." and fill in the blank with an action for the kids to imitate. (touch your nose, stomp your feet, etc.) Keep the actions more simple for the indoors. Do things that will help with them learning to identify arms, legs, hands, feet, etc. If you play outdoors, you can get even more creative since you may have more room to roam. (run in a circle, roll down the hill, etc) Then if you give them an action without saying 'Simon says' that child is out. This is a good game for older kids to help them with their listening skills. For young children, always say 'Simon says.' They enjoy doing whatever silly things you can come up with.

Paper Dolls

2008-03-22T10:26:00.002-05:00

For your craft time make paper dolls. You can either design them yourself, or get some help online. (paper doll link) Keep it simple for the younger ones - maybe make a simple bear. You can use colored construction paper for clothes, or plain paper and let your kids color them.

Sponge Painting

2008-03-22T10:25:00.000-05:00

Cut shapes out of sponges - circles, squares, triangles. You can use old ones or buy new ones at the dollar store. Wet the shapes but wring out the excess water. Dip the sponge in paint or use a brush to apply the paint. Press the sponge onto canvas or paper.

If You're Happy and You Know It!

2008-03-22T10:23:00.003-05:00

Sing the song If You're Happy and You Know It with your kids. Find the music and lyrics here. Have fun with this one by making up your own actions to perform. Let your kids come up with ideas too - they can be quite fun! Examples: If you're happy and you know it...
stick out your tongue
nod your head
flap your arms
yell yahoo!
jump in the air

Pictures from Shapes

2008-03-22T10:16:00.001-05:00

Get out construction paper and glue. Cut out a bunch of circles, squares, and triangles from different colored paper. Then let your kids glue the shapes onto a sheet of construction paper. They can either do a collage or use the shapes to create pictures, like a tangram (a tangram uses 7 geometric pieces to create different forms) only with as many shapes and pieces as they want.

Shape Scavenger Hunt

2008-03-22T10:15:00.000-05:00

Make a list of the items your kids have to find. The items should be based on shapes such as 4 squares, 2 rectangles, 1 triangle, 3 circles. Give your kids a bag or basket to collect their items. If your kids are older, you might want to increase the difficulty of the scavenger hunt by tagging colors and shapes together - ex: red square, blue circle, etc. Work with your kids to see the shapes in their every day environment.

Hide and Go Seek

2008-03-22T10:11:00.002-05:00

An oldie but a goodie. One person is it. They close their eyes and count to ten. While they are counting, the other kids (or parent) hides. Traditionally, after counting to ten say, "Ready or not, here I come!" After finding the hiders, the last person found gets to be it.

I Spy

2008-03-22T10:09:00.002-05:00

If you don't know how this game works, one person says "I spy with my little eye something that is...." then you give a description of the object that you have chosen. (ex: green, tall, round) Then the other person looks around and tries guessing what the object is that you have described. Take turns picking the object or let whoever guesses it get the next turn.

Play Pretend

2008-03-22T10:05:00.003-05:00

Let your kids decide who they will be and what adventure they will go on. Get into the game with them and ask them questions to prompt their imagination further. Ex: Okay, we are Dora and Diego and we are going to the mountain. How are we getting there? Are we walking, hopping, taking a scooter?

Food for Thought

2008-01-29T00:43:00.000-06:00

Have you ever wondered how to get your kids to eat healthy? Here is the quick tip of the day: If you want them to eat healthy, you have to eat healthy.

I was at one time a raw foodist and I still have a few favorite recipes that I like to whip up now and again. These are definitely not your traditional fare. But my kids want to eat whatever I am eating. They don't care that no other kid on the block is eating raw tabouli salad for lunch. What they care about is that mommy is eating raw tabouli salad - and they want it.

There are some things that they might try and decide they don't want. But usually if they see me eating it on a regular basis, they try it again because, gosh darn it.... they want what I have!

Sure my kids like to eat chicken nuggets and french fries. But when they beg for fruit, eat green salads, raw nuts and whole wheat pasta on a regular basis, do you think I worry about the occasional junk food? Nope.

That is the unfortunate truth of it...if you want your kids to eat healthy, then it starts with you.

And since I mentioned it, here is the recipe for raw tabouli that I make...yummy and chock full of nutrition.

In a food processor chop several green onions, about 1/2 bunch of parsley, and 1/2 bunch of cilantro. Mix in a handful of chopped raw almonds and 1 large chopped tomato. Mash a ripe avocado with the juice of 1/2 small lemon, a drizzle of EVOO, and a little honey. (optional) Stir the avocado dressing into the salad and chow down!

The Next Survivor Series

2008-01-25T00:00:00.000-06:00

I don't know when I am going to be back at home and on a regular posting schedule again, but hang in there, I will be back! Until then, this came my way via email and I thought it was too good not to pass on! Women, get ready to sign your husbands up for this next Survivor....

THE NEXT SURVIVOR SERIES - Six married men will be dropped on an island with one car and 3 kids each for six weeks.

Each kid will play two sports and either take music or dance classes.

There is no fast food.

Each man must take care of his 3 kids; keep his assigned house clean, correct all homework, and complete science projects, cook, do laundry, and pay a list of 'pretend' bills with not enough money. In addition, each man will have to budget in money for groceries each week.

Each man must remember the birthdays of all their friends and relatives, and send cards out on time.

Each man must also take each child to a doctor's appointment, a dentist appointment and a haircut appointment.

He must make one unscheduled and inconvenient visit per child to the Urgent Care. He must also make cookies or cupcakes for a social function.

Each man will be responsible for decorating his own assigned house, planting flowers outside and keeping it presentable at all times. The men will only have access to television when the kids are asleep and all chores are done.

The men must shave their legs, wear makeup daily, adorn himself with jewelry, wear uncomfortable yet stylish shoes, keep fingernails polished and eyebrows groomed.

During one of the six weeks, the men will have to endure severe abdominal cramps, back aches, and have extreme, unexplained mood swings but never once complain or slow down from other duties.

They must attend weekly school meetings, church, and find time at least once to spend the afternoon at the park or a similar setting. They will need to read a book and then pray with the children each night and in the morning, feed them, dress them, brush their teeth and comb their hair by 7:00 am.

A test will be given at the end of the six weeks, and each father will be required to know all of the following information: each child's birthday, height, weight, shoe size, clothes size and doctor's name. Also the child's weight at birth, length, time of birth, and length of labor, each child's favorite color, middle name, favorite snack, favorite song, favorite drink, favorite toy, biggest fear and what they want to be when they grow up.

The kids vote them off the island based on performance. The last man wins only if...he still has enough energy to be intimate with his spouse at a moment's notice. If the last man does win, he can play the game over and over and over again for the next 18-25 years eventually earning the right to be called Mother!

New Year, New Format

2008-01-10T19:00:00.000-06:00

A big apology to my 1 or 2 readers out there besides my mom. We have had a major interruption this week in my ability to blog. First I have been having computer problems and was concerned about having a virus. I wanted to download the AVG free virus protection program, but on dial up, it was a very lengthy process. (about 4 1/2 hours) To make matters worse, I kept getting disconnected and having to restart the download.

Then, after finally getting the virus protection up and running, we had an unforeseen major change of venue. We packed up our kids and drove 27 hours to Phoenix. Hubby is going to be working down here for a while. With all of this going on, I have not had the opportunity to do my regular blogging.

Meanwhile, I have been thinking about changing the format. My original concept was for a book that would categorize activities for moms. I am going to start doing posts following this format. Each post will be under one of the activity labels - indoor time, outdoor time, arts, crafts, music, and story time. Then you can pick and choose your own activities by looking under the labels on the blog page. The good news is that I am back on high speed internet now that I am in Phoenix, so I should be able to get the site completely updated while I am here.

Thanks for your patience and next week will resume regular postings.

Now for wading through all this, you get rewarded with this touching little tidbit to remind us that children may say the darndest things, but sometimes they also say the most profound things. Click on the Sky Angel Cowboy link and listen to the audio message.

P, P, What Begins With P

2008-01-06T19:42:00.000-06:00

You know how Sesame Street has a letter of the day each show? Well, we are going to have a letter of the day today - P. You could really have fun with it and feed your kids meals that are "p" foods... pancakes, pork chops, peas, potatoes, popsicles, pickles, pizza, etc.

Craft Time: Break out old circulars or magazines that you can cut up. Make a collage on construction paper of things that begin with the letter P. If your kids are young, do the cutting for them, but then let them glue the pictures onto the paper.

Outdoor Time: Play Pretend. Let your kids decide who they will be and what adventure they will go on. Get into the game with them and ask them questions to prompt their imagination further. Ex: Okay, we are Dora and Diego and we are going to the mountain. How are we getting there? Are we walking, hopping, taking a scooter?

Music Time: Teach your kids the song Puff the Magic Dragon. You can get all the lyrics and music here.

Story Time: Look through your collection of books for "P" stories - either the title or the main character. Harold and the Purple Crayon would work for example with the purple crayon being prominant throughout the book. :)

Art Time: Pink and purple art time. Give your kids a sheet of art paper and all the different shades of pink and purple crayons. See what creative designs they can make with just those colors.

Indoor Time: Puzzle time. Bring out your puzzles and spend some time putting them together with your kids.

Ship Shape Shenanigans

2008-01-02T20:54:00.000-06:00

Craft Time: Get out construction paper and glue. Cut out a bunch of circles, squares, and triangles from different colored paper. Then let your kids glue the shapes onto a sheet of construction paper. They can either do a collage or use the shapes to create pictures, like a tangram.

Indoor Time: Have a shape scavenger hunt. Make a list of the items your kids have to find. The items should be based on shapes such as 4 squares, 2 rectangles, 1 triangle, 3 circles. Give your kids a bag or basket to collect their items. If your kids are older, you might want to increase the difficulty of the scavenger hunt by tagging colors and shapes together - ex: red square, blue circle, etc. Work with your kids to see the shapes in their every day environment.

Music Time: Sing the song If You're Happy and You Know It with your kids. Find the music and lyrics here. Have fun with this one by making up your own actions to perform. Let your kids come up with ideas too - they can be quite fun!

Art Time: Sponge painting. Cut shapes out of sponges - circles, squares, triangles. You can use old ones or buy new ones at the dollar store. Wet the shapes but wring out the excess water. Dip the sponge in paint or use a brush to apply the paint. Press the sponge onto canvas or paper.

Outdoor Time: Play I Spy. If you don't know how this game works, one person says "I spy with my little eye something that is...." then you give a description of the object that you have chosen. (ex: green, tall, round) Then the other person looks around and tries guessing what the object is that you have described. For this game, stick to shapes. Pick out objects that specifically can be described as a shape - round, square, rectangle, etc.

Story Time: Find books that teach shapes. If you don't have any specifically on shapes, use any books with good pictures. Then have your kids find the shapes in the pictures.

Busy Bodies

2008-01-01T17:52:00.000-06:00

Craft Time: For your craft time make paper dolls. You can either design them yourself, or get some help online. (paper doll link) Keep it simple for the younger ones - maybe make a simple bear.

Indoor Time: Play Simon Says. Keep the actions more simple for the indoors. Do things that will help with them learning to identify arms, legs, hands, feet, etc.

Outdoor Time: Here is an easy one...play hide and go seek.

Art Time: Using playdough, have your kids shape little people. Make all the body parts - feet, legs, body, arms, head - then assemble them.

Story Time: Find a book that teaches about the parts of the body. (arms, legs, hands, feet, etc.) This will tie in nicely with your music time today.

Music Time: Do the Hokey Pokey with your kids today. Need the Lyrics? Don't be afraid to add your own twist to the song and dance like "You put your teddy bear in, you put your teddy bear out..."

Do the Holidays Ever End?

2007-12-31T21:45:00.000-06:00

Okay, I admit it. New Year's Eve completely snuck up on me. In celebration of (or recovery thereof) I will not be posting activities for tomorrow. Have a great day with your family. If you need something to do with your kids, then take a trip down memory lane. Look at photos from 2007 and remember all the great times you had together.

Happy New Year!

Fun Farm Frolicking

2007-12-30T20:18:00.000-06:00

Welcome back! I hope you all had great holidays and you are sufficiently recovered and ready for the arrival of the new year. We are going to start out simply this week since it has been such a busy time of the year.

Music Time: Sing Old MacDonald had a Farm with your kids.

Craft Time: Make paper bag puppets. Try making farm animals like a cow, pig, sheep, or chicken. You can do this by decorating the bags with construction paper cutouts or get more creative with other art supplies. (ex: buttons, yarn, glitter, etc.)

Story Time: Read books about farm animals.

Outdoor Time: Have your kids pretend to be different farm animals.

Art Time: Have your kids draw and color a farm scene. If you have really young artists at home, find them a coloring page with farm animals and just have them do the coloring.

Indoor Time: Put on a puppet show. If you have puppets, you can use them. Otherwise, use the puppets you made at craft time.

Carnival of SAHMs - December 23, 2007

2007-12-23T20:17:00.000-06:00

Welcome to the December 23, 2007 edition of Carnival of SAHMs. Sorry the posting is so late, but at least I am getting it in on the right day! Life has been CRAZY here with the addition of our 6 year old nephew to the kid crew. I was telling my brother-in-law that I had to go post a blog carnival and he said, "I don't even know what a blog is...I'm thinking it's some sort of high heel shoe with goldfish in it, but I'm not sure." Do you know people that react the same way when you talk about blogging?! Well, on with the carnival...there is a lot of good reading here for you this week.

Did you ever wonder if you are the only mom that lives a crazy life? Well wonder no more! Dana presents And the toilet saga continues posted at Principled Discovery.

Okay, I must live under a rock. I had no idea there was even a product called the Keeper. Whether you know what it is or not, you can find out from one who's been there and done that. Stephanie presents The Keeper - A Three Month Review posted at Stop the Ride!.

Tea Party Girl presents Why I Said ‘No’ So I Could Say ‘Yes’ posted at Tea Party Girl, saying, "Blessed December to every SaHM! I hope this article helps you choose little ways you too can be nurtured this season." I thought this was a refreshing point of view considering I have a little girl turning 3 next month and she doesn't take tumbling, dance, karate, swim lessons, piano, gymboree, etc., etc.

Lauren Franklin presents Once upon a time... posted at Finding my mommy voice. Come read about the start of Lauren's journey as a mom.

Need a good laugh? Here you go! Jenny Rapson presents Dirty Phonics on the Bathroom Wall posted at Mommin' It Up!.

Lisa Clauson presents How to Teach Children to Say Thank You posted at Lil Duck Duck. Thanks, Lisa, for some creative ideas for thank you's. Very timely with Christmas this week!

Spillay presents Christmas is coming! posted at A Pot of Gold. A nice read to help remember why, as moms, we run around like crazy this time of year.

Dolfin presents Book Review - Hanukkah posted at Lionden Landing, saying, "Holiday wrapup - A book review of Hanukkah" This is a nice post comparing several books on Hanukkah. Dolfin has done the footwork so you don't have to.

WhatWorksForMom presents Scrooged posted at What Works For Us. Ai-carumba! This is one of those stories that makes you question what you would do in the same situation.

This is a REAL quick tidbit. Wenchypoo presents Food Absurdity of the Millenium posted at Wisdom From Wenchypoo's Mental Wastebasket, saying, "Some entertainment for you--food to AVOID. This product is perfect for the inept cook who can't boil water without burning it. I found this buried in my health food store's online catalog."

Here's a little glimpse into a the life of a SAHM from New Jersey. Jenny presents My Little Guitar Hero posted at the so called me.

Alison presents Preschool For a Fraction of the Cost posted at This Wasn't in The Plan.
Cool! That was my reaction to this idea. It's on my list of things to look into.

Last but not least, here is an experienced mom sharing her wisdom on sleep training. We did something similar with our first, but unfortunately, waaaay too late in the game after far too long without sleep. Fussy Fussypants presents How to get your baby to sleep through the night posted at Mrs. Fussypants Guide to Life, saying, "Hope y'all enjoy!"

I too, hope you all enjoyed this edition of the SAHM carnival. A very merry Christmas and may you find the perfect gift in your children's smiles on Christmas morning.

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Keeping it Clean

2007-12-20T09:10:00.000-06:00

A little blog housekeeping first - tomorrow is Favorites Friday, so you get to repeat your children's favorite activities from the week. I won't be posting the Daily Grind next week for a couple of reasons. One, we have family coming in for the holidays so it promises to be quite hectic around here. Two, I don't think most people are going to have a problem finding ways to keep the kids entertained next week. For most of us, the kids are going to have a bunch of new toys to keep them happily engaged for the week. But, I will be hosting the SAHM Blog Carnival this Sunday. Be sure to check back in and see what moms are contributing this week for your reading pleasure.

And, since I mentioned it a looooong time ago, I thought I would post my cleaning schedule for those of you who can't get enough of schedules. This schedule is designed to keep your house clean - NOT spotless. Go see Martha Stewart if you need a spotless house....better yet, go see a shrink. You need to get your priorities in order. Spotless homes and small children are not congruent. If you fail to get everything done everyday, then at the very least your home will be tidy. This far surpasses the (total chaos)(pit of despair) mess that reigns without some sort of schedule in my home.

Being an accountant by trade, I am an excel freak. So my schedule is posted as a spreadsheet on my refrigerator. Feel free to write it up in whatever way works for you. You could use index cards for each day/category, make a list then laminate it, write it on a white board where you can check it off as you go...the possibilities are limited only by your imagination.

Here is my schedule:

DAILY: Straighten all rooms
Do dishes and put away
Make beds
Plan meals
Do a load of laundry
Wipe bathroom sinks
Wipe down shower after use
Clean stove/oven as needed
Pay bills
Water plants/garden
Feed/water pets

WEEKLY -
MONDAY: Empty wastebaskets/take trash out
Sweep kitchen floor
Spot-clean walls/floors
Change bed sheets
Choose a monthly task
TUESDAY: Clean kitchen sink
Clean bathroom mirrors
Clean toilets
Clean ceiling fans
Choose a monthly task
WEDNESDAY: Empty wastebaskets
Clean toaster, microwave, coffeemaker (i.e. regularly used small appliances)
Wipe cabinets/appliances
Sweep/mop downstairs
THURSDAY: Clean kitchen sink
Clean bathroom mirrors
Clean showers Spot-clean floors
FRIDAY: Empty wastebaskets
Dusting Sweep/mop upstairs
SATURDAY: Clean kitchen sink
Choose 1-2 monthly, bi-monthly, bi-annual, or yearly tasks

MONTHLY: 2x - dust out of reach areas/polish
Check dryer vents
Vacuum in/on/under furniture
Clean refrigerator inside/top/under
Wash kitchen curtains
Turn mattresses
Wash garbage cans
Wash windows inside

EVERY OTHER MONTH: Dust blinds
Wax floors
Clean kitchen drawers/cupboards
Wash curtains
Wash whole stove
Wash windows outside
Baking soda in drains to clear sinks
Clean throw rugs

BI-ANNUALLY: Carpets cleaned
Rotate seasonal clothes
Clean closets/drawers
Check smoke detectors/replace batteries (do at daylight saving time each year is an easy way to remember)

YEARLY: AC/heating system maintenance
Wash walls
Wash blinds

I know, I know....it seems overwhelming. But the reality is, you are doing most of this anyway. You just didn't realize how much you were juggling every day/week. Or you did, and it made you want to fake your own death and disappear to a tropical island somewhere. Utilizing this schedule will help it be more manageable. Really, if you are following this schedule on a regular basis, most of the daily and weekly stuff just isn't so bad. It's when you fall behind that the tasks can become laborious. For instance, if you haven't so much as looked at the blades on your ceiling fans since the day they were installed or you moved in, then it is very likely going to be a highly time consuming chore the first time you clean them. But after that, each week will be a pretty quick and painless assignment to dust the blades off.

Also, you can shift items around as needed for your home. Our garbage is picked up on Tuesday morning. I was scheduling to empty the wastebaskets 3x a week, so I did MWF to accommodate getting them emptied the day it needed to go out. Our last home was only one level. I just split the house into two sections and swept/mopped half the house on Wednesday and the other half on Friday. Also, I assigned everything from Mon.-Sat. I like having Sunday off from any chores. You can set up your schedule for every day of the week if you like or maybe you would rather do more during the week and have off Saturday and Sunday. Just be realistic about what you can get done in a day without totally neglecting your kids.

Oh, yeah. Here's the really important part....your husband should be helping you get this all done. Stop laughing - I'm serious. Keeping a household clean after you (get married) have kids is a huge task. Having this chart helps you to make that point abundantly clear with your significant other. Sit down with him sometime after the kids are in bed and before you become completely comatose, and go over the list of tasks, assigning them between the two of you. If your husband still needs more convincing that you need his help, then I suggest the two of you read Babyproofing Your Marriage. (review here) This book makes it clear that if a man wants you to meet his marital needs (nudge, nudge, wink, wink, say no more) then he needs to step up to the plate in a big way with the housework. Really, once you have kids, housework is the new box of chocolates/bouquet of roses. I remember telling a girlfriend of mine after the first baby, "Hubby did the dishes, cleaned the kitchen and swept the floors last night. It was the best foreplay I've had in a long time!"

Enough said. Divvy up the housework and give yourself grace on those days it just doesn't all get done. Your house will live to see another day. (and you will too!)

It's a Snow Day of Sorts

2007-12-19T22:58:00.000-06:00

What a cute snowman! But this creation will set you back close to $60 if you want to buy it. Instead, you can make it with your kids during your craft time.

Craft Time: Snowman door wreath. Pick up 3 wreaths from your local dollar store or craft store. Tie them together to form your snowman and add a hat, scarf and mittens. The totally homemade version goes like this: Get an old cardboard box. Cut one big circle out of cardboard. Draw 3 circles inside each other on your cardboard circle, so that it looks like a dartboard. Then cut along each line. This leaves you with 3 circles to make your wreaths for the snowman. Punch holes in the circles and tie them together to make your snowman. Let your kids glue cotton balls onto the snowman, then dress him in your scarf set and hang on the wall or your front door. If you make a smaller one, then your kids can use construction paper to make the accessories for the snowman and glue them on.

Art Time: You draw the outline of a snowman family on paper. Now let your kids color in the features and accessories for Poppa snowman, Momma snowman, and baby snowman.

Indoor Time: Indoor sledding. Take turns giving your kids "sled" rides. Get a blanket out and lay it on the floor. Have your kid sit down on it, pull the sides in towards them for them to hold onto. Now you take the end and pull them around the house. This works best on non-carpeted floors, but can be done even on carpet. note: this is in place of going to the gym for you!

Outdoor Time: You've heard of a rain dance. Well, today you will do a snow dance with your kids. Do it up good if you want a white Christmas!

Music Time: Put on the song "Let it Snow," pick your child up in your arms, and dance with them. This is a great song to love on your kid with - hugs and kisses are called for in between twirls and dips.

Story Time: Read your kids Frosty the Snowman. You can find the story online here: Frosty the Snowman

Christmas Letter Pizzaz

2007-12-19T15:12:00.000-06:00

Are you dreading creating your family letter for the year? Try this approach to get your creative juices flowing and make it more interesting for all involved. (i.e. your readers!) Write down the highlights you want to hit for the year. Now start creating a letter that reads like "The Night Before Christmas." To do this, you want to have 12 syllables per line and you want to rhyme each group of two. Here was our family letter from last year to give you an idea of how it goes. (I haven't worked on this years yet, but heck, the years not over!)

The year 2006 has come and gone so fast
With bittersweet memories that are sure to last.

The year started off with long awaited good news
A baby was due before Trinity reached two.

February we learned about love and respect,
A marriage conference we will never forget.

News came in April of the first of our losses,
Amy’s Grandmother went home to be with Jesus.

Amy went to Illinois to say her goodbyes,
Then returned home in time to turn around and fly.

Off to Florida for vacation we were bound
We stayed with Aunt Cookie and she showed us around.

The Cubs and the Diamondbacks played in early May
What a great way to celebrate Amy’s birthday.

But what was so much fun became cause to be sad,
When at the end of the month, we lost Amy’s Dad.

What a tremendous loss to all those who loved him
It seems so unreal we won’t see him ‘til heaven.

Somehow we moved on and prepared for the baby
Angelina arrived on September twenty.

Three years of marriage, one year of David’s Salon
Now two children at home, how fast the time has gone!

If we could talk to our dad two things we would say
We love you so much; tell Jesus “Happy Birthday!”

MERRY CHRISTMAS!
David, Amy, Trinity and Angelina

Give it a try - you may find it's not nearly as hard as it looks!

What do Teddy Bear Races Have to do with Christmas?

2007-12-18T20:52:00.000-06:00

The answer: nothing. They are just something fun and easy to do with your kids. And don't we need a little fun and easy in our lives these days?! Here are all the suggestions for your activities today:

Craft Time: Christmas card tree ornaments. Put all those cards to good use. Cut out the pictures on the card to make an ornament. If there is a picture of a tree, then cut out the tree; an angel, cut it out. Let your kids cut if they are old enough. Then let them outline it with glue and glitter. Add some yarn or a pipe cleaner to hang it from the tree.

Music Time: Sing and dance to the tune of Walking in a Winter Wonderland. But to make it more fun, put on your long johns and sing it ..."walking in our winter underwear" instead. (Google "Winter Wonderland lyrics" if you need the words)

Story Time: The Polar Express is a must read with your kids this holiday season. Head over to the library and check it out.

Outdoor Time: In the spirit of the Polar Express, play choo-choo train with your kids. Have your kids form a train by standing behind each other and holding onto the waist of the kid in front of them. You be the engine in the front. Reach your hands back for your kid to hold onto if it isn't easy for them to hold onto your waist. Now chuga-chuga-choo-choo all around the yard. If they want, let them take a turn being the engine.

Indoor Time: Have teddy bear races. Get a couple of empty plastic clothes baskets and put a teddy bear in each. Have your kids race each other or you race your kid. Set a course for the race then push your teddy bears across the floor and see who gets to the end first. Try not to dump your teddy bear along the way! (don't have plastic baskets? find something else that will work in their place - even a couple small empty boxes will do) If you have really young ones, you may want to have the goal be finishing, rather than racing.

Art Time: Let your kids do a watercolor painting of your Christmas tree.

Kid Daze is Dazzled!

2007-12-17T20:22:00.000-06:00

I recently read a book that I think is just fantastic. It is called Babyproofing Your Marriage by Stacie Cockrell, Cathy O'Neill, and Julia Stone. Now, my husband and I are Christians and have been to marriage retreats, marriage groups, marriage conferences, read all the books, been there and bought the t-shirt. Yet we still are on the quest to make our marriage something we are thrilled about rather than something we are surviving through. The one thing we never got from any of our Christian resources is exactly what Babyproofing Your Marriage, or BPYM for short, nails succinctly within its 285 pages. Once you have children, your lives change in ways no one really wants to admit to. (chapter four - The "Sex Life" of New Parents, Coitus Non-existus, among others)

BPYM covers so many of the real life issues that parents face and help you understand that YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Here are some examples from the BPYM Glossary of Terms:

The BPYM Call to Inaction - A plea to mothers everywhere to embrace lower standards and end the Uber-Mama insanity. The movement's manifesto includes calls to a) abolish Open House Overdrive (e.g. setting out fresh flowers before play dates) and b) limit the contents of all birthday party goodie bags to a Sticker and a Fruit Snack.

Marriage on Autopilot - This is the most common marital state for couples parenting small kids; we're not quite asleep at the controls, but no one is actively flying the plane. The "deep and meaningfuls" are gradually replaced by "time to make the donuts" repetition and routine.

Mommy Brain - The sizable portion of a mother's brain that is consumed with both the day-to-day and long-term minutiae of parenting: carpool logistics, doctors' appointments, a toddler's social development and potty-training progress. There is little mental real estate left over for her husband or herself.

Whiplash - The sensation experienced by many stay-at-home moms that they have been yanked out of the 21st century, and hurled back in time to the 1950's where they have to cope with gender inequality and never-ending, unappreciated housework.

All of these get covered in depth in the book along with many, many more. While there are definitely some ideas mentioned in this book that will not be considered acceptable by Christians, they are not specifically the suggestions of the authors. They typically are quotes from other real parents talking about things they have done/do to deal with married life as a parent. There is also language used that could be offensive. I just wanted to be forthright in these issues because I believe that most parents, especially of young children, will find this book enlightening and helpful. It also helps that it is written with a lovely dose of humor to make the revelations easier to swallow.

All in all, Kid Daze gives it a two thumbs up, must read rating. Now, if you'll excuse me, the kids are in bed and I have a date with my husband!

Who Has Time for Gingerbread, Anyway?!

2007-12-17T19:48:00.000-06:00

Craft Time: Graham cracker houses. Instead of baking gingerbread, buy a box of graham crackers and just do the fun part - decorating! Again, sorry I have no photos to show you, but this is another one I am saving for next week. But if you really want to see some examples, just go to Google images and do a search for graham cracker house. You will get to see an abundance of graham creations to give you ideas.

The basics: You will need a box of graham crackers, a container of icing, and an assortment of candies for decorating. Also, a 1/4 tsp of cream of tartar mixed in a cup of icing will help the icing dry hard enough to hold your cracker house together. For a base used cardboard covered in aluminum foil. To pipe your icing onto your house, cut the corner off a plastic bag.

Once you have your walls assembled you have two options. 1. You can cover the house with icing and stick the candies on, or 2. use your icing like glue and stick individual candies on the house. If you go for option one, be sure to only ice one cracker at a time or the icing may get too hard for the candy to stick to it before you get all your decorating done.

Indoor Time: Sock Grab. Otherwise known as sock wrestling. The object of this game is to pull the socks off your opponent before they get your socks off. Obviously if you are playing this with your kids, you have the advantage. So, have fun with it and let your kids get the best of you - or at least get your socks! ;)

Optional alternative - if you have the board game Candyland, this would be the day to play it!

Story Time: Tell them the story of Hansel and Gretel today to go with your graham cracker houses. Don't have the story and no time to go to the library? Look it up online. :)

Outdoor Time: Inspired by Hansel and Gretel, hide a treat outside and create a trail that your kids have to follow in order to find it. You can literally use bread crumbs or whatever else you have that will do the trick and you don't mind trailing all over your yard. Bread crumbs are nice because the birds will clean up after your game for you! Be sure to be very elaborate in your trail making. Do lots of swirling and circling - make it lots of fun for your kids to track.

Music Time: Do you have some jingle bells in the house for holiday decoration? Let your kids play the jingle bells along to some holiday music today.

Art Time: Use playdough to create gingerbread men shapes.

It's Almost Christmas!

2007-12-16T21:08:00.000-06:00

Here we are, the eve of another week. But not just another week - one week before Christmas. Isn't it unbelievable how the time goes so quickly? I am not going to be making "The Daily Grind" posts during Christmas week. We have family coming in to visit and I will be busier than ever. But you can always pull out some old favorites for activities if you don't have enough to keep your kids entertained. My guess is though, that keeping your kids entertained next week is not going to be an issue!

Craft Time: Gumdrop Wreath. I don't have a picture for this one because it is actually a craft I plan on doing with my kids next week when their cousin is here. I found out about this on another site last year, and loved it. The site is no longer actively posting but their archive is still up and available. Check it out at kiddley.com. You will have to scroll down as it is near the bottom of the page. Here is how I made it:

Supplies:
styrofoam wreath
gumdrops
toothpicks
yarn (for hanging - you could also use fishing line, pipe cleaner, etc.)
ribbon for a bow

I make a much smaller version than the one on kiddley. This year I went to Dollar Tree and found small styrofoam circles in the floral accessories section. I will cut the centers out to make them into wreaths. I'm guessing it is about 5" diameter. I also got bags of gumdrops from the Dollar Tree. The rest is pretty simple. Cut the toothpicks in half. Poke the cut side of the toothpick into a gumdrop then stick the other end into the wreath. I only cover the front and sides with gumdrops so that it lays nicely against a wall, cabinet, etc., when it is hung. My daughter and I did this together last year when she was a month shy of being two years old and she had a great time with it. I expect she will be able to do it without my assistance this year. (other than I will pre-cut the toothpicks :)

Story Time: Keep reading Christmas stories. :)

Art Time: Keep it simple today. Have the kids do some Christmas coloring sheets.

Indoor Time: Indoor basketball. Get a laundry basket and set it up on a chair or your sofa. Now teach your kids how to shoot baskets with a big plastic ball. Note: obviously, don't do this where there are breakables! Make sure you have a kid safe zone where you play this game.

Music Time: Teach your kids your favorite Christmas carol.

Outdoor Time: Play red light, green light. You be the stoplight first so that your kids get the hang of it. The basic rules are as follows: The stoplight has their back to the players and calls out "green light." Then the stoplight calls out "red light" and turns around. All the players are supposed to freeze at red light. If they are seen moving then they have to go back to the starting line. The first one to reach the stoplight gets to be the stoplight next. (just take turns, obviously, if you only have one kid) With real young kids, don't expect a complete freeze - if they can just figure out not to keep running during the red light, then they are doing great!

Friday Favorites

2007-12-13T21:31:00.000-06:00

Okay gang, here's the deal. I don't know how it is around your house, but there is tooo much stuff to do with the kids. What ends up happening is my older daughter wants to do something we did before, but of course I've already lined up something new and different to do for the day. In the spirit of 'this is supposed to make life easier with our kids' I am not going to post a fifth day's worth of activities. Fridays are now favorites day. Redo your kids favorite activities from the week. How do you know what those were? Ask them! When it is time to play a game, ask what game they want to play. If they don't name one off the top of their head, then guess what? It gets to be your favorite from the week! Either way, you will have plenty of choices and continued fun with your kids.

Enjoy your Friday favorites!

Twelve Days til Christmas

2007-12-12T15:54:00.000-06:00

Craft Time: It's time to make some cookies with your kids. You can either make your own dough from scratch or buy the ready to bake sugar cookie dough from the store. We opted for the ready to bake since I am a big fan of making life easier at this time of year. Even your young kids can help decorate the cookies. I put my 14 month old in her high chair and put the colored sprinkles in the tray. She had fun spreading them around before I gave her the cookies. Then I showed her how if you lay the cookie on the tray, move it around on the sprinkles, when you life it up it is covered in sprinkles. She picked up on it immediately and was incredibly pleased with herself with every cookie she decorated. The picture is of one of her creations.

Art Time: Using finger paints, teach your kids how to make thumbprint people. They can then make them into Santa and his elves. Dip their thumb in red paint for Santa then press on paper. Use green for the elves. After the paint is dried, they can use crayons to color in the rest of the characters features (face, arms, legs, etc.) and the scene - Santa's workshop maybe?

Story Time: Keep reading those Christmas stories. Only twelve more days to go! ;)

Indoor Time: Break out the bubbles and find a room where you don't mind bubbles popping on your floor - most likely your kitchen.

Music Time: Since it is now twelve days til Christmas, teach your kids the Twelve Days of Christmas today. Here is a link with music too, if you need the words.

Twelve Days of Christmas

Outdoor Time: We haven't been able to go outside and play since we got hit with the ice storm. But if my kids could, I would just take them outside and have them run! They opted for running back and forth on the couch this afternoon! If your weather permits, let your kids enjoy the simple art of running. Make it a race, telling them you bet they can't beat you - then let them!

It's Coming Up Candy Canes

2007-12-11T20:50:00.000-06:00

Craft Time: Using red and white (or red and silver) pipe cleaners, make candy cane tree ornaments. Just wrap the two pipe cleaners around each other, then form into a cane shape. This is an excellent alternative to hanging the real thing on the tree. In our home, the ornaments will be replaced by real candy canes after the kids go to bed Christmas eve. Then, in the morning, they will find that Santa traded out their ornaments for candy and will be so thrilled.

Story Time: Keep reading your children Christmas stories.

Indoor Time: Play Make the Shape. In this game we will keep with our candy cane theme. Using toys, pillows, etc. have your kids lay out objects on the floor in the shape of a candy cane. Create the first one for them so they see the object of the game. If the kids are really young, you may want to pick out the objects for them to place into position.

Art Time: Break out the playdough and make candy cane shapes.

Outdoor Time: Play "I Spy" with your kids. Look around and pick out an object in the yard that is easily seen. Say, "I spy with my little eye something that is..." then give one word that describes the object such as "square," "blue," or "tall." Then have them try to guess what you have picked. Take turns picking the object.

Music Time: Play with any musical toys you might have - whether they are toy instruments or toys that play different kid songs. Sing the songs with your kids and interact with them with their toys. They have so much fun sharing their play time with you and will love showing you how good they are at making music.

Holiday Jam Session

2007-12-10T11:47:00.001-06:00

Craft Time: Today make a Christmas collage. Cut pictures of trees, ornaments, wreaths, and anything else that seems like Christmas to you. Have your kids glue them on construction paper - red or green preferably!

Story Time: Let's move into Christmas story mode. Head to the library and check out some books to help get your kids in the holiday mood. (like they need help, right!? lol!)

Music Time: Holiday jam session. Put on the holiday music for some more dancing to Christmas tunes.

Art Time: Print out holiday coloring sheets for your kids from the internet. Better yet, head to the dollar store and pick up a whole coloring book so you have plenty on hand.

Indoor Time: Remember that game they played on Sesame Street - they would sing the song about "one of these things is not like the other?" They would have four objects and one would be different somehow. You can play this game with your kids. Do groupings such as: 3 teddy bears and 1 doll, 3 red blocks and 1 green block, 3 small toys and 1 large toy, 3 round toys and 1 square toy.

Outdoor Time: Pattern play - have your kids do patterns of movement and keep adding to it to see how long they can remember. Example: First you jump. Then you jump and take a step to your right. Then you jump, step to your right, then run forward. Then you jump, step to your right, run forward, then turn around in a circle twice. etc, etc. It's up to your own imagination.

End the Madness!

2007-12-09T21:02:00.000-06:00

Did you go out into the holiday madness this weekend? Well, never fear, Monday is here. Have some fun with the kids today.

Craft Time: Today we are making Christmas balls for the tree. But these are no ordinary balls - these are filled with chocolate candies. Below you see all the supplies you need to make them: egg cartons, pipe cleaners, candies, and metallic tissue paper. hint: you can find pretty much all you need to make these at the dollar store.

Cut the egg carton cups into sections. Stack one cup on top of the other and tape one side so that it can flip open like a lid. Fill with candy. Close the cups then wrap up in a square of metallic tissue paper. Use half of a pipe cleaner to close. The pipe cleaner then twists around the branch to attach on the Christmas tree.

Now you not only have a decoration on your tree, but a candy surprise as well. On Christmas day, if anyone needs a sweet treat, they can just help themselves to a Christmas ball ornament from the tree! :)

Indoor Time: Play beanbag toss. You don't even need a bean bag to accomplish this game. Get yourself an empty clothes basket for the target. Use balled up socks to act as bean bags. Make 3 bean bags. Take turns tossing the bags into the target, seeing who can get the most in. Keep moving farther and farther away to make it more challenging.

Story Time: Today find books that teach about circles. If you don't have any specifically about shapes, help your kids to identify circles in the various pictures of the stories you read.

Art Time: Break out the crayons today and have your kids do a winter wonderland drawing complete with Frosty the Snowman, who just happens to be made of ...circles!

Music Time: Teach your kids Frosty the Snowman today. This is a great song to dance and skip around to. It almost begs to run around as you adventure along with Frosty! Don't know the words? You can find them here:

Frosty the Snowman

Outdoor Time: Target toss. Similar to your beanbag toss, but now use a big bouncy ball. Select an object to be the target. (a tree trunk, swing set leg, rock, patio chair, etc) From a good distance away, toss the ball with the goal of getting the ball to stop close to the target. Mark their position and try to get closer with the next toss.

Too Many Toys!

2007-12-07T22:29:00.001-06:00

This is starting a new category - quick tips.

Are you buried under a mountain of toys? Here is a quick tip that worked for me. When the kids were soundly sleeping, I gathered all the toys together. I took three plastic crates and divided all the toys into the crates. I'm talking about all the little stuff - the slinkies, baby dolls, race cars, Shrek watch, bouncy balls, teething toys, etc. I tried to separate like items so there was some of each in the crates. Then I packed up 2 boxes and put them in my closet. I let the kids play with the toys in one crate until I notice that they are starting to spend more time exploring non-toy items, i.e. getting into cabinets, dragging around my broom, etc. Then that night, I pack up the toys and exchange out the crate. The next few days are so exciting as they find "new" toys to play with and forgotten about long lost friends.

Keep smiling! :)

Holiday Bling

2007-12-06T22:02:00.000-06:00

Craft Time: Today we are making jewelry. You will need construction paper, tape, glue, and some advertisements from the paper or an old store catalog with pictures of jewelry. Cut strips of construction paper. Cut out pictures of jewels from advertisements. Let your kids choose which items they want even if you have to do the cutting for them - it's their jewelry, after all! Have them glue the cutout jewels onto the strips. Once they are dried, use tape to hold the ends together. Your kids will love having a little bling to wear! (picture below is bracelets in the drying stage)

Now, fair warning, your child may have a completely different idea of what a diamond bracelet should look like than you do. Remember, this is their project, so no editorial comments on how they decorate their bracelet. If you must, make your own so you can do it the "right" way. *wink*

I hear you saying, ummmm, I have 3 boys and not one of them is interested in making a diamond bracelet. Never fear - let them make a watch. Have them pick out a watch face to cut out and glue on, and then they can decorate the "watchband" however they like.

Music Time: Put on a classical music station and practice ballet dancing. Moms of boys, before you go telling me how your little one won't want to ballet dance, here is the solution. Don't tell them it's ballet. Just have them spin around, leap through the air, jump, hop, whatever they want. Try to get them to tailor the movement to the music - that's the real gist of it anyway - getting into the timing and mood of the music. Have fun with it though. Don't become the dance nazi and get overly critical. If they are jumping up and down like they are hopped up on sugar when the music is slow and calm, let them burn the energy!

Art Time: How is the photography going this week? Good! This is your last day to get some great shots. Have you noticed that your kid is getting better at taking pictures? Doesn't take long does it!

Story Time: Find all the books you have about opposites and make that your topic for the days reading.

Indoor Time: Indoor bowling. Use whatever you have on hand that might work as pins - some ideas are empty plastic soda bottles or rectangle shaped blocks. Get a ball (preferably big soft squishy type that kids are so enamored with, but even a tennis ball would work fine) and let them have fun trying to knock down the pins.

Outdoor Time: Our outdoor time was filled with the game - catch the snowflake on your tongue. Obviously one you can only play when it's snowing! In the event that you don't have snow falling when you want to play with your kids outside, grab a bag of mini-marshmallows and practice tossing them up in the air and trying to catch them in your mouth. Decidedly more delicious than snowflakes any day, and your face doesn't get all wet! For a variation, try tossing marshmallows into each others mouths.

Letter to Santa today! Woo-hoo!

2007-12-05T20:15:00.000-06:00

Indoor Time: Play Drop the Barrette in the Bottle. Here is the game as we played it in our home - but as you read on, you will see that you may need to be creative on recreating the game for yourself. Having two little girls, I have an abundance of small plastic barrettes. This game was created in an effort to get the girls to pick them up after they were strewn all over the living room. I took an empty plastic apple juice bottle (you could use empty milk jug, litre soda bottle, etc.) and had them drop the barrettes into the bottle, making sure that they started low and kept raising the height to make it challenging. (of course, for the 14 mo. old it was just enough to drop them in - total joy!) If you don't have barrettes find something else small enough to fit through the opening...crayons would work great.

Outdoor Time: An oldie but goodie, have some fun with Simon Says today. Be sure to get them to do things to burn some energy.

Story Time: Practice making up stories. Start with the favorite saying, "Once upon a time..." You tell a story then let your kids give it a try. This is great imagination practice for them. Don't criticize or try to add to their story - just enjoy what their little minds come up with, and let them know it. :)

Craft Time: Write a letter to Santa on Christmas stationery - the catch is, your kids will do the decorating to make it holiday stationery. If your kids are too young to do the writing themselves, you can write it for them, being sure to have them tell you what they want for Christmas. Draw a square in the center of the sheet and do all the writing inside the square. Then let your kids decorate all around the letter. Give them whatever works for their age and ability - glue, glitter, stickers, construction paper to cut out their own Christmas symbols, crayons or colored pencils for drawing, etc, etc. When it comes time to put it in the envelope, have them draw/color the stamp for the envelope - this step is completely optional. Go ahead and put a stamp on it if you would like to be part of the $185,000 or so that the postal service makes on Santa letters. But you can explain to the kids that Santa's letters don't require postage other than their own creation. (part of the whole being good thing)

Music Time: Put on some music and dance. Make a game out of it - the kids dance around as long as the music is on. Turn the music off (or down so you can't hear it) and the kids have to freeze. Done correctly, this can induce lots of giggles!

Art Time: Back to photography today. We took a break yesterday and colored a Christmas tree, but today we are back at trying to capture the perfect photo (or photos) to make into Christmas cards.

A Decidedly Christmas Activity Day!

2007-12-04T22:40:00.000-06:00

Craft Time: I know we are already into the month of December, but creating an advent calender is a great craft to do with your kids. Below is a picture of the one our kids grandmother made for them. It gives you an idea of what you can do for your own. Use felt to create the calender. The Christmas balls are numbered 1-25 and can be attached using Velcro. On the bottom of the calender are little pockets numbered with the dates. If you have older kids that won't try to eat small things, then you can use tiny ornaments to hang on each day of December. They store nicely in the little pockets until their day is reached.

(our kids are still in the "eat small things" phase, so we are just using the velcro balls for now!) You can put more effort into this project and make something you keep for year after year, or just minimal effort and make one for just this year. Then you can have the fun of making a new creation each year with your kids. You decide what works for your family.

Story Time: Include a Christmas story today in your reading time with your kids. If you don't have Christmas books, then head off to the library and stock up!

Indoor Time: Try a new twist on an old game - play pin the star on the Christmas tree. Either draw a picture of a tree or print one off the Internet. You could even draw a tree on a white board or chalk board. Cut out stars from construction paper and have fun! (do I need to say it? use tape on the stars - not pins!)

Art Time: Break out the crayolas and have a tree decorating contest via a coloring page.

Music Time: Teach your kids Rudolph the Red-nosed Reindeer. Don't know the words? You can find them here...
Rudolph

Outdoor Time: Have a Santa obstacle race. Have them start at the "North Pole," then fly their sleigh onto the "roof top." Next they have to go down the chimney. If you have a swing set with a slide, I recommend the slide be the roof top and going down the slide is going down the chimney. After that, they have to high-tail it back to the North Pole. Cheer them on as they make their way along the route.

Shrill Shopping

2007-12-03T19:41:00.000-06:00

An old man was grocery shopping with his grandson. The toddler was crying and at times screaming at the top of his lungs. As the old gentleman walked up and down the aisles, people could hear him speaking in a soft voice..."We are almost done, Albert....try not to cry, Albert....life will get better, Albert...." As he approached the checkout stand, he carefully brushed the toddler's tears from his eyes and said again, "Do not cry, Albert... we will be home soon, Albert..." As he was paying the cashier, the toddler continued to cry as a young woman in line behind him said, "Sir, I think it is wonderful how sweet you are being to your little Albert." The old gentleman blinked his eyes a couple of times before saying, "My grandson's name is John....I'm Albert..."

We have all been there. We must go shopping and the little one(s) must come along. Does anything fill your heart with dread more? I read this little amusing story that came my way via email and thought - story of my life!

I can remember being at WalMart with my two girls this summer. Somehow the two them got started on a screaming frenzy. The younger loves to imitate her older sister. So, there they were, in my shopping cart, one screaming then the other screaming, and grinning like they were the coolest thing since Dora the Explorer. I couldn't get them to stop. What do you do? I mean, I had visions of duct tape over their mouths, but of course THAT would never happen outside of my dreams. I walked through the store, pushing this cacophony along, literally talking out loud..."I don't know these kids, I just found them in the parking lot, I have NO idea who these children are..."

Have you ever been there and done that?

Stars and Stripes Forever, Take II

2007-12-03T19:09:00.000-06:00

Craft Time: Christmas tree decorations are the order of the day. These are the Christmas version of stars and stripes - we'll just call them stars and icicles. Cut out stars and strips of construction paper. Take some of the strips and stack them together. Now start cutting off little bits at angles, creating paper confetti. Put glue on your cut-outs and sprinkle your confetti paper over it until it is covered. Shake off the extra confetti. Use yarn, string, rubber bands, twisty-ties, etc. to hang your ornaments. Just tape onto the back and hang on the tree.

Story Time: Read a Christmas story with your little ones. Today we added O Little Town of Bethlehem, A Pageant of Lights, published by Candy Cane Press. It is a great book for all ages. It is a board book, so highly tolerant of your littlest ones, and has light up stars and music. What fun!

Music Time: Practice singing your ABC's with your kids. Incorporate any toys that play the tune. If you have toys with the alphabet on them, use them to teach the letters while you sing.

Art Time: Repeat - this whole week is going to be Focus on Photography. Let your kids take pictures to make home-made Christmas cards. Help your kids play photographer by setting up scenes for them to photograph. How about a favorite teddy bear holding a Christmas stocking? How about a favorite teddy bear in a Christmas stocking?

Indoor Time: Hide and go seek Tag.... sounds wrong, but it is right. You have probably played this before, but just never put a name to it. I play this all the time and my kids love it! Say, "I'm going to get you!" then run up and tickle them. Run away and hide around a corner or behind a doorway. As your kids come out looking for you, jump out and say again, "I'm going to get you!" Your kids will run squealing with delight as you chase after them to tickle them again. Repeat the process until you are all laughed out. :)

Outdoor Time: Teach your little ones how to skip and practice skipping around the yard.

Problem Solving 101 - Take II

2007-12-02T22:54:00.000-06:00

For a list of craft items needed for this week, check out last weeks postings under Stars and Stripes forever. Add Velcro to that list, preferably the kind with the sticky backing so you don't even have to sew. Now on to the activities!

Craft Time: We are going to start with the garland for our Christmas tree. Cut strips of colored construction paper. Form a loop and tape it together. Form the next loop inside the 1st one and continue to create a long chain. I had to help my almost 3 year old, but she did most of the work herself and loved this activity.

Story Time: Read a Christmas story with your little ones. In honor of my daughter Angelina, we checked out Angelina's Christmas (of the Angelina Ballerina fame) by Katharine Holabird, from the library. The story is a good one to teach about helping others. Use your story time to not only read stories but talk to them about the lessons they are learning from the books.

Music Time: Sing Christmas songs. Start with "Dashing through the snow, in a one horse open sleigh..." Have fun with them and dance.

Art Time: This whole week is going to be Focus on Photography. Let your kids take pictures to make home-made Christmas cards. Group together holiday decorations for close-ups or let them take scenic shots in your local neighborhood. Does your city have a nice holiday display? That can make a great picture for a Christmas card. If you get snow this week, head out with your kids for some winter wonderland photos. Let creativity be the guide, and listen to your kids ideas for pictures.

Indoor Time: I call this game Island Hopping. Gather some pillows together. These are your islands. Lay out a path of pillows from your couch to a chair or other piece of furniture. Tell your kids that the floor is the ocean and the furniture and pillows are the islands. The goal is to stay on the islands. Have them practice walking along the pillows. Now, take it up a notch by removing a pillow and spreading out the remaining ones. Keep removing pillows until they have to hop from pillow to pillow. (this is great fun for them!) Try teaching problem solving skills by giving them only 2 pillows and tell them they have to reach some far away piece of furniture. See if they can figure out to stand on one pillow and put the other one ahead of them for the next step, continuing to pick up the pillow behind them to put ahead of them for the next step until they reach their destination. Help them out if they need it.

Outdoor Time: Ball play. Practice throwing. Toss the ball back and forth. Also toss the ball and see how far they can throw it. Put a marker down after the first throw and see if they can beat it.

Lead Poisoning from Christmas Trees?!?

2007-11-28T18:30:00.001-06:00

Unbelievably, my new AC adapter arrived for my laptop. I ordered it on Monday and really hoped only that it might arrive by Saturday. What a surprise to see it on my front steps today! But good surprises are always welcome. :)

Since I was unable to post pictures and did late posts, I have decided to take a break this week from the activity posts. I am going to concentrate on getting my site up on kid-daze.com instead. Then I will start up again on Sunday with the activity posts again. I will be reposting Monday and Tuesday complete with photos of the crafts.

Meanwhile, I wanted to write about an interesting discovery that we made in our home this past week. Friday was the day to pull out the Christmas tree and set it up. We purchased one of those pre-lit artificial trees several years ago. This year when we set up the tree, several of the strings were not lighting up - bummer! So, my dear hubby began fiddling with it and eventually got all but the strand at the very top to light up. I pulled out the paperwork that came with the tree to see if there were any tips on dealing with unlit strands. I read through it all and it was the last bit on the "Important Safety Instructions" that threw me for a loop. I quote:

"Prop. 65 Warning: Handling the coated electrical wires of this product exposes you to lead, a chemical known to the State of California to cause cancer, birth defects and other reproductive harm. Wash hands after use."

Now, I don't know about you, but I would never in my wildest dreams have considered my Christmas tree as a potential source for lead poisoning. This is especially distressing considering I was pregnant with my first child when we bought the tree and we are going on our third year of handling these lead coated wires.

I googled "Christmas tree lead poisoning" and surprise, surprise, there are a lot of articles out there. One thing I read was that the concern was greater with products made in China. (as our tree was, as well as the slew of recently recalled toys) Also, just because there is no warning doesn't mean that there is no lead in your Christmas lights or other decorations. It just means they don't sell it in California which requires by law that it is marked as containing lead.

Here is a link with valuable information on it geared toward safety for your children.
health information

Now why haven't I heard about this before? Does everyone else know this and I just live under the proverbial rock? Or is this new and disturbing information to the other parents out there?

PLEASE, pass this information along. Thanks!

Stars and Stripes Forever

2007-11-26T18:41:00.000-06:00

Time to go shopping! Here is your shopping list for craft supplies:
Felt - white, green, red, and colors of your choice
Glitter
Cotton balls
Yarn - red or green

Craft Time: Christmas tree decorations are the order of the day. These are the Christmas version of stars and stripes - we'll just call them stars and icicles. Cut out starts and strips of construction paper. Take some of the strips and stack them together. Now start cutting off little bits at angles, creating paper confetti. Put glue on your cut-outs and sprinkle your confetti paper over it until it is covered. Shake off the extra confetti. Use yarn, string, rubber bands, twisty-ties, etc. to hang your ornaments. Just tape onto the back and hang on the tree.

Story Time: Read a Christmas story with your little ones. Today we added O Little Town of Bethlehem, A Pageant of Lights, published by Candy Cane Press. It is a great book for all ages. It is a board book, so highly tolerant of your littlest ones, and has light up stars and music. What fun!

Music Time: Practice singing your ABC's with your kids. Incorporate any toys that play the tune. If you have toys with the alphabet on them, use them to teach the letters while you sing.

Art Time: Repeat - this whole week is going to be Focus on Photography. Let your kids take pictures to make home-made Christmas cards. Help your kids play photographer by setting up scenes for them to photograph. How about a favorite teddy bear holding a Christmas stocking? How about a favorite teddy bear in a Christmas stocking?

Indoor Time: Hide and go seek Tag.... sounds wrong, but it is right. You have probably played this before, but just never put a name to it. I play this all the time and my kids love it! Say, "I'm going to get you!" then run up and tickle them. Run away and hide around a corner or behind a doorway. As your kids come out looking for you, jump out and say again, "I'm going to get you!" Your kids will run squealing with delight as you chase after them to tickle them again. Repeat the process until you are all laughed out. :)

Outdoor Time: Teach your little ones how to skip and practice skipping around the yard.

Problem Solving 101

2007-11-26T18:28:00.000-06:00

Well, my computer decided not to allow me to log on to blogger, so I have finally made my way to the library to make a couple posts. Sorry for the delay... hope you found some fun things on your own to do with your kids. Here is how the day was supposed to look...

(also, I can not upload any pics til later - library rules)

Craft Time: We are going to start with the garland for our Christmas tree. Cut strips of colored construction paper. Form a loop and tape it together. Form the next loop inside the 1st one and continue to create a long chain. I had to help my almost 3 year old, but she did most of the work herself and loved this activity.

Story Time: Read a Christmas story with your little ones. In honor of my daughter Angelina, we checked out Angelina's Christmas (of the Angelina Ballerina fame) by Katharine Holabird, from the library. The story is a good one to teach about helping others. Use your story time to not only read stories but talk to them about the lessons they are learning fromthe books.

Music Time: Sing Christmas songs. Start with "Dashing through the snow, in a one horse open sleigh..." Have fun with them and dance.

Art Time: This whole week is going to be Focus on Photography. Let your kids take pictures to make home-made Christmas cards. Group together holiday decorations for close-ups or let them take sceni shots in your local neighborhood. Does your city have a nice holiday display? That can make a great picture for a Christmas card. If you get snow this week, head out with your kids for some winter wonderland photos. Let creativity be the guide, and listen to your kids ideas for pictures.

Indoor Time: I call this game Island Hopping. Gather some pillows together. These are your islands. Lay out a path of pillows from your couch to a chair or other piece of furniture. Tell your kids that the floor is the ocean and the furniture and pillows are the islands. The goal is to stay on the islands. Have them practice walking along the pillows. Now, take it up a notch by removing a pillow and spreading out the remaining ones. Keep removing pillows until they have to hop from pillow to pillow. (this is great fun for them!)

Try teaching problem solving skills by giving them only 2 pillows and tell them they have to reach some far away piece of furniture. See if they can figure out to stand on one pillow and put the other one ahead of them for the next step, continuing to pick up the pillow behind them to put ahead of them for the next step until they reach their destination. Help them out if they need it.

Outdoor Time: Ball play. Practice throwing. Toss the ball back and forth. Also toss the ball and see how far they can throw it. Put a marker down after the first throw and see if they can beat it.

Deck the Halls with... Fish?

2007-11-22T22:19:00.000-06:00

We are moving into Christmas mode here. The day after Thanksgiving is our day to break out the Christmas tree. With two small children in our house, I decided to leave our tree decorations in the storage box and go with entirely home-made decorations this year. So, be forewarned - in the upcoming weeks there will be lots of crafts to create holiday decorations for your home and tree.

But for today, we have a fishing theme.

Story Time: Dr. Seuss' One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish would be perfect. Barring that you own that particular Dr. Seuss, try looking through your picture books for fish. Have your kids help you look for them.

Craft Time: Today we are making a fishing pole and fish. Use an old papertowel tube for the fishing pole. (don't have one? get creative and find something else to use... a stick from your yard maybe?) Poke a hole in the end and tie on a length of yarn or string. Make a hook from a pipe cleaner for the end. You could also use aluminum foil - just scrunch and shape.

For the fish, cut them out of construction paper, making 4 fish per page. I stacked several sheets, cut them in half, then in half again. Then I cut groups of fish out of the piles rather than cutting individual fish. I let my daughter draw on eyes and fins, whatever she felt the fish needed, while I worked on making the rings. Just take small strips of paper, make a ring and tape it together, then tape on the fish.

Indoor Time: Go fishing! We found that having the hook be closer to an "L" shape rather than a "J" worked much better, but you can tailer it to the age and skill level of your child. Put the fish on the floor and let your kids hook them with their fishing poles. Give them a bucket or basket to put the fish as they catch them. My one year old daughter didn't bother with the fishing pole - she just enjoyed picking up the fish and putting them in the bucket!

Art Time: Draw a wavy blue line across the top of a sheet of doodle paper. Tell your child that is the top of a lake or ocean and have them draw and color in the fish that live there.

Music Time: Sing Row Row Row Your Boat and other songs with your kids today.

Outdoor Time: Imagination is the game today. Let your kids pretend to be on a fishing trip. They can hike along a great river and fish from the banks or get in a boat and float down the river, catching fish and spotting wildlife along the way.

Turkey Tag and Photography

2007-11-21T19:31:00.000-06:00

If you have time with your kids today or even if you don't, here are some things to keep them busy.

Indoor Time: Find the turkey. Designate an object "the turkey." It could be a small stuffed animal (maybe you even have a turkey!) or a ball or anything else you want to use. Hide the turkey in their playroom (or whatever room you want them playing in) then let them try and find it. Whoever finds the turkey gets to hide it next.

Outdoor Time: Play tag. Make it turkey tag. Whoever is "it" has to gobble like a turkey while they are chasing.

Craft Time: Make a collage on construction paper of things for which you are thankful. Cut pictures out of the advertisements you got in the mail or from old magazines. Let your kids glue them on the paper.

Art Time: Focus on Photography. This is going to be a recurring theme. Work with your little ones in teaching them how to use the camera. Either let them use yours (they especially love the instant gratification of digital) or get disposable cameras for their use. Today let them take pictures of your Thanksgiving celebration. See what is deemed picture worthy by your kids.

Music Time: I don't know about you, but we have the holiday music going already. (may have had something to do with the 4 inches of snow we had today that went so nicely with Walking in a Winter Wonderland on the radio!) Put on some holiday tunes and let your kids dance.

Story Time: This is it. The last day for the Thanksgiving books. Have you memorized any of the stories yet?

Happy Thanksgiving!

Talkin' Turkey

2007-11-21T08:04:00.000-06:00

Ahhh, the day before Thanksgiving. The Turkey theme continues!

Craft Time: Today print out a copy of a turkey coloring sheet or if you are feeling artistic enough for the challenge, draw the outline of a turkey yourself. We found our turkey picture at this link: turkey

Break out those feathers I told you to buy at the beginning of the week. If you opted not to buy feathers, then cut feathers out of construction paper. Now let your kids glue feathers on the turkey.

Art Time: Break out the play dough and sculpt a Mayflower ship, Tom Turkey, or for the artistically challenged, Plymouth rock! Don’t have play dough? There are lots of good recipes available online to make it in your own kitchen.

Music Time: Get out a musical toy for your kids to play with today. Grandma and grandpa got a keyboard for my kids that they just love. There is a demo button that plays kids tunes. Even my one year old can punch the button and get music to play so she can dance.

Story Time: Keep reading those Thanksgiving stories to your kids. Have they picked out a favorite yet?

Indoor Time: Pre-basketball. Get out a ball and a small box or basket. Practice tossing the ball into the box.

Outdoor Time: Play follow the leader. You be the leader first so they get the idea. Lead them all around the yard. Be sure to vary your walk - hop, run, jump, even roll on the ground. Then let your little ones take turns being the leader.

Prep Tip - be sure to hold on to the circulars that come in the mail today. You can use them for your craft time tomorrow!

Underwater Basket Weaving for Kids

2007-11-20T07:03:00.000-06:00

Craft Time: Okay, not exactly underwater basket weaving, but you will introduce your kiddos to the concept of weaving today in your craft time.
Fold a piece of construction paper in half and cut slits about 1 inch apart, stopping about an inch from the edge. Cut strips of other colored paper to use to weave over and under in your cut paper. Glue down the ends. You can use "fall" colors and make place mats for your Thanksgiving dinner. We just went for the colorful look. Use this time to talk with your child about the Pilgrims. We had a discussion about how they didn't have stores to go buy what they needed. They had to make things that they needed. The weaving pattern could be used to make baskets, rugs, or blankets.

Art Time: Print out Thanksgiving themed coloring sheets to color. There are loads of sites where you can download pictures for free. Here is a link to one. coloring pages

Story Time: Read a Thanksgiving story that you picked out at the library as part of your story time today.

Music Time: Have an Indian pow-wow. Find things that you can beat on like a drum and dance. Suggestions for drums: small bucket, empty oatmeal container, small box... experiment with different things and see what makes good rhythms. Take turns playing the drums while the other person dances.

Outdoor Time: It's that time of year for playing in big piles of leaves. Rake up a pile and have fun running and jumping in it or throwing them in the air and letting them fall on you like confetti at a party. My daughter likes to be buried in them so only her head is showing. :)

Indoor Time: Grow a pretend garden and talk about how the Pilgrims had to grow their own food. If you have toy vegetables, great. Otherwise just use blocks or something similar and pretend they are food. Throw blankets on the floor to be your garden. Plant your plastic food in the folds and cover them up. Pretend to water your garden. Get a "basket" and go back and harvest the vegetables in your garden.

Let us know how your kids enjoyed todays Thanksgiving fun!

Pre-soccer, Sofa Fun, Thanksgiving Cards, Dancing, and Marshmallow Turkeys

2007-11-18T21:32:00.000-06:00

Here are ideas for your activity times today.

Story Time: This week, head to the library and get some books on Thanksgiving.

Music Time: See what kind of music makes your kid dance. Turn on the radio and cruise through the stations, stopping on the different kinds of music. When your little one starts dancing to one, leave it there and dance with them. You might be surprised by what gets your kid grooving. (I did this experiment with the music stations on cable. It turns out my two year old loves jazz!)

Indoor Time: Sofa fun. Pull the cushions off your family room couch and pile them up on the floor. Let the kids climb on them, fall on them, build with them. You can also build them up on the sofa to create a fort. Stand one up on end and lay another across the top to the back of the sofa. (Don't have removable cushions? Gather up all the pillows in your house and make a big pillow pile for the kids to play in)

Outdoor Time: Pre-soccer. Get a ball and kick it around with your kids. Set up a "goal" such as a tree or bush and take turns kicking the ball to the goal.

Art Time: Make Thanksgiving cards to send to family or friends. Cut a piece of construction paper in half, then fold in half. Glue on a holiday picture. (hint: make a copy in black and white from one of the kid books you checked out from the library) Write your greetings inside and let your kids color the picture on the front of the card.

Craft Time: Marshmallow Turkey
1. Cut a toothpick in half. Use the toothpick to hold together two large marshmallows - the tail piece and the body piece. Use the other half to attach a large marshmallow for the head to the body.
2. Skewer two gumdrops on a toothpick and cut off the end of the toothpick so it isn't too long to poke into the marshmallow. Make 3 sections with 2 gumdrops. Make two sections with only one gumdrop. (cut a toothpick in half and use one gumdrop on each half) Poke all the gumdrop tail feathers into the tail piece marshmallow.
3. Cut off a little piece of gumdrop, cut in half, and stick onto the face for eyes. Cut a gumdrop in half, then cut one half in half again. These two pieces get stuck on the head as the beak. Another gumdrop cut in half becomes feet. We didn't do wings, but you could certainly slice up some more gumdrops to create wings.
There you have it. Not the prettiest Turkey, but definitely the most fun for your kids to make!

Did you have a memorable moment while doing one of these activities with your kids? Please share it with us!

Getting Ready for Turkey Week

2007-11-17T21:52:00.000-06:00

This could be a busy week for you and the kids depending on your holiday plans. But never fear, we have some really fun things for you to do with your kids if you get some down time. Which brings me to why I am writing to you tonight. I wanted to give you a heads up on the upcoming week and a few hints for going forward.

One thing you might want to do is start saving some of the things you normally throw away. Think empty egg cartons, paper towel rolls, soda boxes, cereal boxes, milk jugs, etc. Don't get buried in this stuff, but set aside one big box that you toss these things into. Once you have reached maximum capacity, stop saving. This way you will have some resources on hand for getting creatively crafty with. For sure be saving up those empty egg cartons. If you are not an egg eater, maybe you have a neighbor or friend who will save you up a few. There is a super fun project in December using these, and the more the merrier!

For this week there are a few items you will need for the crafts. Some you may have and some you may need to get. Here is the list:
construction paper, multi-colored
glue
large marshmallows
gum drops (aka spice drops)
toothpicks
feathers (optional)

You may also want to create a craft box. We have one in our home where we collect all our arts and crafts type stuff - crayons, markers, doodle pads, stickers, etc. A great place to go is a dollar store to stock up on the basics. Craft stores or WalMart also have some other items that are good to have on hand such as pipe cleaners, google eyes, pom poms, etc. Create a nice little stash for yourself up front and chances are good you either will have everything you need, or at least have something that would work in place of my suggested item.

But never fear, I will always give you a heads up before the beginning of the week to make sure you have everything you need. So, gather up your goodies and get ready to have some fun with your kids.

I've Got My Schedule, But Now What Do I Do???

2007-11-16T08:24:00.000-06:00

I know, I know. The ultimate mother dilemma. How to keep our kids entertained all day long without going nutty ourselves. This is why the super easy flexible schedule comes in so handy. First, you have specific activities that you will be doing. This keeps the day varied and interesting. Second, you don't even have to figure out what to do for Craft Time or what game to play for Indoor Time. That is the real beauty of this site. New ideas will be posted for each weekday that you can do with your kids. Yep, you heard right. Just check in every day to get your activity list for the day.

Does this mean you have to do what is posted online? Of course not! They are just suggestions to get your own creative juices flowing. Feel free to find your own unique ways to implement each idea. If you hit upon one that your kids just love, then by all means, use it again and again. (you know how kids like to do the same thing over and over and over and over....) But the option is there to follow each idea as outlined and leave the creative thinking to Kid-Daze. :)

More on the Super Easy Flexible Schedule for Your Kids

2007-11-15T19:08:00.000-06:00

Just when you thought you had it all down... there are other ways to use the super easy schedule for kids. Not everyone is a schedule person that wants to do the same thing all the time. This goes for kids too. While they need a certain amount of routine in their lives, all kids have different personalities. So if your skin crawls with the heevie jeevies just thinking about being on a schedule with your kids, there are a couple of ways to modify its use.

In our original schedule, we ordered our activities and then started at the beginning each day and moved through the different activities. No matter what point we reached at the end of the day, we start at the beginning the next day.

In the first alternative, you can just continue where you left off the day before. This way you just continuously move through each activity. You would do the most variety of activities with your kids following the schedule in this manner.

The second alternative is to make it more of a game for your kids. Put the different activity times on an index card or piece of paper - one activity per card. Then put all the cards in a jar or bowl. Have your dear little one pick one out and that is your first activity. Each time you are ready to move on to another activity, your child gets to pick it out of the jar - surprise! This becomes the routine for you and your child.

The most important aspect of the schedule is that you are finding time to spend with your kids while keeping them entertained and learning about their world.

A Super Easy Flexible Schedule for Your Kids

2007-11-14T08:39:00.000-06:00

We have all heard it before. If you are a mom you are painfully aware that keeping your kids on a regular schedule is important if you are to keep your head up high in the mommy circles. But for most of us, daily life isn’t so easily scheduled as to write it in erasable marker on a board in the kitchen and “so be it.”

My solution is the “Flex” Schedule. Here is how it works.
There are different activity times in the schedule for which you should allot 30 minutes each.

Story Time - read a story or look at picture books
Music Time - singing songs, dancing, making music or playing with musical toys
Art Time - painting, coloring, drawing, sculpting
Craft Time - making something by cutting, gluing, decorating
Outdoor Time - games for the great outdoors
Indoor Time - structured play for inside

These are the main activity times which will account for 3 hours a day with your kids. The order they are in does not matter. What does matter is that you are consistent in the order. So, if you set up your schedule in the order listed above, you would always follow up Story Time with Music Time. Now, does this mean if your kid is having a crank monster day and has absolutely no interest in doing your planned Music Time activity with you that you force the aforementioned crank monster to comply to your will? Absolutely not. That is the beauty of the flexible schedule. Maybe they have their own idea of what to do for Music Time. Maybe they just need some Free Time first and then they will be happy to participate in your planned activity. Or maybe you just need to skip music time for the day and move on to Art Time.

Which brings us to the whole ‘flexible’ concept. I know at my house I don’t want to be tied to doing activities at particular times. I might need to go shopping, meet up with some other moms for a play date, or go to the dentist. Whenever there is an activity that will create a break in your schedule, simply pick up with the next activity time once you are back home. Again, if they are used to Music Time following Story Time, then that is what you do upon returning.

Now, how to pick the order of your schedule. Since other life activities will often reduce the amount of time you have for your planned activity time, determine which activities are most important to you for your children. Personally, I love to read, so I want to instill the love of books in my children. That makes Story Time as the first activity on my schedule. It’s the one thing I definitely want to do with my kids everyday. Maybe you are just not a crafty person. Put Craft Time at the bottom of your schedule. Chances are good that many days you may not even get around to craft time - even when you stay home all day with the kids.

What?? How can that be? We already added up our activity time and it was only 3 hours, correct? So, how could we not get to all the activities everyday? The rest of the day is filled up with snacks, naps, baths, meals, and free time. You can see the day is suddenly very full!

Most kids will need some free time after spending time interacting with you. Usually after 30-60 minutes of parent interaction, kids will want some time to play by themselves. This is the time you get, to take care of your own personal schedule - chat with your girlfriend while supervising the little ones, pay bills, do some laundry…you don’t need my help figuring out what to do when your kids are happily playing. (but if you want my help, I have a cleaning schedule you can use to fill up that free time!) Kids can burn up a lot of the day with their free time play, and isn’t that what we want? Ultimately, we want to stimulate their imagination and curiosity.

Now that you have decided how to order your schedule, here is how to implement it. First you need to put it in writing somewhere you can see it. I suggest the refrigerator door - goodness knows you probably spend a lot of time in the kitchen - I know I do! You can do something as simple as writing it up like it is a grocery list or you can be creative. It does make an excellent project for your kids to do during Craft Time. :) Try cutting circles or squares out of construction paper and write an activity on each circle. Glue the shapes on another sheet of paper and tape to the fridge. Use a magnet to mark the current activity time. This way you have created a visual reminder that the kids are actually following a schedule and it gives them that comfortable ‘routine’ feeling they desperately crave.

Second, remember that it can be difficult for kids to make transitions quickly. Be sure to give your kids some ample notice that you are going to be doing something else soon. Not giving them proper notice is a sure fire way to rouse that sleeping crank monster.

Third, be sure to have your kids help clean up before moving on to the next activity or free time. It is never too soon for them to learn to put their things away. Have them help even if you have to literally take them by the hand and show them how. (I.e. very young toddlers)

There you go. You have a schedule for your kids, a newfound sanity, and it wasn’t even painful. Now go enjoy your kids!